{"id":856,"date":"2023-01-30T18:36:31","date_gmt":"2023-01-30T18:36:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.divorcingoptions.com\/Blog\/?p=856"},"modified":"2023-01-30T18:36:31","modified_gmt":"2023-01-30T18:36:31","slug":"take-your-divorce-off-of-the-back-burner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.divorcingoptions.com\/Blog\/take-your-divorce-off-of-the-back-burner\/","title":{"rendered":"Take Your Divorce Off of the Back Burner?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.divorcingoptions.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/download-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-857\" src=\"https:\/\/www.divorcingoptions.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/download-1-300x134.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"134\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.divorcingoptions.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/download-1-300x134.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.divorcingoptions.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/download-1.jpg 674w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>By Anthony C. Adamopoulos, Divorce Mediator and Collaborative Divorce Counsel<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>It appears that many parties, after really trying to save their marriage, are now facing divorce but nevertheless are putting their divorce on the back burner. They feel that with the pressures of COVID, inflation, job dissatisfaction, housing cost, etc., comparatively speaking \u201c<em>divorce can be put on the back burner for now<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, it may be better to deal with divorce (through mediation, Collaborative or litigation) sooner rather than later.<\/p>\n<p>From a positive perspective, dealing with those negative pressures can and do produce a \u201cresilience ability\u201d to face other difficult challenges such as divorce.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, divorce does not have to be destructive; it can be a cooperative constructive effort. \u00a0In my mediation and Collaborative practice this is the norm \u2013 the cooperative construction of a positive future.<\/p>\n<p>The decision to divorce should not be based on a comparison to external pressures, but rather on each party\u2019s overall well-being and happiness.<\/p>\n<p>With all that is at stake, a professional consultation can help individuals make the decision that is right for them.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/feed\/hashtag\/?keywords=facingdivorce&amp;highlightedUpdateUrns=urn%3Ali%3Aactivity%3A7025888874266533888\">#facingdivorce<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/feed\/hashtag\/?keywords=howtostartdivorceprocess&amp;highlightedUpdateUrns=urn%3Ali%3Aactivity%3A7025888874266533888\">#howtostartdivorceprocess<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/feed\/hashtag\/?keywords=divorceoptions&amp;highlightedUpdateUrns=urn%3Ali%3Aactivity%3A7025888874266533888\">#divorceoptions<\/a>,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/feed\/hashtag\/?keywords=cooperativeconstrutivedivorce&amp;highlightedUpdateUrns=urn%3Ali%3Aactivity%3A7025888874266533888&amp;lipi=urn%3Ali%3Apage%3Ad_flagship3_feed%3BBammhP71TJy60SzxlF212A%3D%3D\">#cooperativeconstrutivedivorce<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Anthony C. Adamopoulos, Divorce Mediator and Collaborative Divorce Counsel &nbsp; It appears that many parties, after really trying to save their marriage, are now facing divorce but nevertheless are putting their divorce on the back burner. They feel that with the pressures of COVID, inflation, job dissatisfaction, housing cost, etc., comparatively speaking \u201cdivorce can [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[49,140,34,64,28,45,66,63,68,69],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-856","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"hentry","6":"category-adr","7":"category-avoid-divorce-court-delays","8":"category-best-process","9":"category-collaborative-divorce","10":"category-considering-divorce","11":"category-different-divorces","12":"category-mediation-divorce","13":"category-divorce-process","15":"category-how-to-get-divorce"},"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Take Your Divorce Off of the Back Burner? 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