{"id":843,"date":"2022-12-27T17:20:08","date_gmt":"2022-12-27T17:20:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.divorcingoptions.com\/Blog\/?p=843"},"modified":"2022-12-27T17:20:08","modified_gmt":"2022-12-27T17:20:08","slug":"my-advice-for-divorce-month-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.divorcingoptions.com\/Blog\/my-advice-for-divorce-month-4\/","title":{"rendered":"My Advice for Divorce Month – Use Either Divorce Mediation or Collaborative Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"

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By:\u00a0 Anthony C. Adamopoulos, Divorce Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Attorney <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are facing divorce, please, I urge you: stay out of the court\u2019s adversarial system.<\/span><\/p>\n

Staying out of the adversarial system generally means using either mediation or collaborative divorce.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hand in hand with selecting the right approach, is selecting the right mediator or collaborative lawyer. Not all divorce lawyers are qualified to do divorce mediation or\u00a0 practice in Collaborative Divorce. Mediation requires training, experience and success. A Collaborative Divorce attorney needs to be certified. Believe me, this is not the time to go to your third cousin\u2019s friend\u2019s real estate lawyer.<\/span><\/p>\n

As your divorce mediator I help the two of you develop a draft\u00a0 \u201csettlement agreement\u201d. If the two of you can\u2019t agree on something, I help you resolve the disagreement (something I am good at). The final Settlement Agreement will probably be the most important document to be presented to the judge at your uncontested divorce hearing.<\/span><\/p>\n

In Collaborative Divorce, you, your spouse, your lawyers and other Collaborative Team members make up the Collaborative Team. The Team has one goal, the efficient, collaborative resolution of all issues without using the adversarial divorce system. As your Collaborative Attorney I am \u201cat your side\u201d throughout the process. Collaborative Divorce can be very helpful where there are several issues or many questions around high income or valuable assets.<\/span><\/p>\n

Call now with any questions-978-744-9591.<\/span><\/p>\n

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By:\u00a0 Anthony C. Adamopoulos, Divorce Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Attorney If you are facing divorce, please, I urge you: stay out of the court\u2019s adversarial system. Staying out of the adversarial system generally means using either mediation or collaborative divorce. Hand in hand with selecting the right approach, is selecting the right mediator or collaborative lawyer. 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