When a Friend Says, “I Think I’m Getting Divorced…”

What do you say? What do you recommend?

Divorce can be one of life’s most difficult transitions. If someone you care about confides in you, you can offer support—without taking sides—by gently guiding them toward a better path:

🔹 Focus on the future, not the fight.
Encourage both spouses to concentrate on getting through this, not getting back at each other. When one tries to punish the other, everyone suffers.

🔹 Consider Mediation or Collaborative Divorce.
These alternatives to court are typically less expensive, less stressful, and more respectful.

🔹 Reluctant spouse? Don’t give up.
Even when one spouse resists cooperation, experienced professionals can help create progress—without pressure.

🤝 Divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. It can be a beginning.

Be well, Anthony C. Adamopoulos
Divorce Mediator & Certified Collaborative Attorney
📍Topsfield, MA | ✉️ acaboston@aol.com | ☎️ (978) 744-9591